Studying Abroad

About 50% of my thoughts on a daily basis revolve around my upcoming trip to Europe. As an International Business major, we are required to study abroad in the Spring semester of our junior year (which I was planning on doing anyways, but I love how there is no way out of it now). Instead of choosing where you get to go, we have to make a list in order of preference. The IB program gives us 45 schools worldwide to choose from. We put a top 4, and they say you’re almost guaranteed to be placed at one of your top 4 universities, but just in case they also make you choose 7 backups, also listed in order of preference.

It’s a little scary, but also exciting because I feel like I will end up where I belong by some work of magic.

In order, these are my choices:

1 – Prague, Czech Republic
2 – Vienna, Austria
3 – Zurich, Switzerland
4 – Rome, Italy
5 – Pamplona, Spain
6 – Copenhagen, Denmark
7 – Mannheim, Germany
8 – St. Gallen, Switzerland
9 – Milan, Italy
10 – Tilburg, Netherlands
11 – Vallendar, Germany

I’m going to Europe no matter what and, while I would definitely prefer to go to one of my top 6 schools, I’m really just excited to go period! I am so anxious to find out (which I should hear in about one month) so I can start researching everything about my temporary home. I’m becoming so anxious that it’s killing me!

I’ve been to Rome before but I was only there for 2 days. Naturally, we saw all of the touristy parts which are absolutely amazing, but wherever I end up I want to really immerse myself in the culture and get a more local feeling.

These next 30 days are going to go by fast I know, because I’ll be at my beach house in Hampton, then Keith and I are doing a mini road-trip to visit Simon in Baltimore, and then lastly I’ll be at my beach house in CT! I’m keeping busy, but times where I have nothing to do (like right now) I wish I could be using it to research! Ah, soon enough.

A Kansas City Summer

Now that I’ve finally told you about my experiences in Honduras, I guess I can catch up to my present life.

As I write this I’m sitting at a desk at Lawing Financial, where I’m interning this summer. The office is in Overland Park, Kansas! Very close to Kansas City, Missouri. I’m just wrapping up my first week of the internship and I have to say that I’m really loving it! Usually going to places where I am unfamiliar makes me nervous, but so far it’s been going really well.

There are two other interns here with me, Tim and Brett. They’re both a year older than me. Brett will be a senior at Kansas State, while Tim will be one at University of Georgia. I guess every year they do a photoshoot of the new interns to print some of the pictures into the marketing newspaper. Here are some of those:

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I also met three other people close to my age: James, JG (Jordan) and Paige. They’re all 23-24, are recent college graduates and just started full-time jobs here at Lawing Financial. They’ve been extremely welcoming – today was my second day going out to lunch with them, and we’re planning on going to a Kansas City Royals game this weekend!

I thought I was going to have a hard time adjusting to life in Kansas, but I’ve begun to enjoy myself so early on in my trip that I feel as though it’s going to be hard to leave come July. Trying to take everything in and not rush through the days!

The Final Day

Our last day in Honduras was here. Despite the worksite days feeling never-ending, the trip as a whole flew by.

The morning consisted of a convention where we heard many representatives from Students Helping Honduras speak. We got to hear a lot of incredible stories about how the organization started and has expanded to so many different colleges throughout the United States. We took a really cool video on a GoPro that flew around the room, too. Keep checking the SHH website for it!

Next year our goal is to raise $10,000 by winter break. It’s a big goal but one that we are confident we can do!

It was a long drive to the beach, but that’s how we spent our day. We stopped to get these fruit called Lychees. They look like they have tiny spikes all over the skin, but they’re very good if you try them. We got to La Playa, ate some Chinese food which felt a little odd, and then got a banana & pineapple smoothie. While we were drinking our smoothies Ashlyn got her hair corn-rolled.

We also went to this little bar and got some delicious margaritas! Afterwards, we went on a banana boat ride. It was the five of us girls from USC plus McCall, Jesse and Katie. We all got whipped off at the end and the water was SO salty with such a strong current! It was so fun though. We laid out on the beach for a while before heading to get a strawberry daiquiri before we left. Jean Carlos made me sit with him on the bus ride home, which was fun at first. Until he kept trying to kiss me all over my face!!!!! He’s so cute and funny but I kept telling him “No, only friends, only friends!” He understood me but he thought it was funny to pretend not to and to keep trying to kiss me. Aye aye aye.

When we got back, we had our final dinner – chicken with plantain chips and salsa. Then we got ready for the club: Club 504. Before leaving, we shotgunned a GROSS Honduran beer and drank the wine we’d bought at the grocery store on day 1. At the club we decided to drink margaritas instead. It was a lonnnnng night. We stayed out so late and we were all so exhausted from the long work week and the beach which had drained us all day, but we had a blast.

Some inside jokes from the club:

  1. Jin and Hunter were gettin it
  2. “Is she going to a wedding”
    “Who”
    “Mom”
  3. Dancing with Honduran boys & “the one” on stage

I ended up falling asleep for a few minutes on a sofa upstairs. It was such a long night. We left a little after 1:00 AM and some people had to go straight to the airport – yikes. Luckily our flight was later.

The next morning (or really just a few hours later) we woke up, packed our things, got on an early bus and spent the day sitting at the Honduran airport because almost everyone’s flights were delayed. Eventually, we made it back to Newark where we spent the night at Shayna’s house for our overnight layover.

The next morning we had a layover in Chicago, where we coincidentally found Lauren S who also was there on a layover from China. What a surprise! Eventually, more than 24 hours later, we made it back to our “beloved” little apartment – Riverside. Woo.

It was an amazing trip and one that I am very, very thankful for. We truly roughed it for the week we were there and yet I would not give up this opportunity for the world. I met some of the most generous people, made some great friends that I’ve kept in touch with since being back at USC, and had a life-changing, eye-opening experience that has made me so much more appreciative of the life I’ve been blessed to live. I hope to return to Honduras in my senior year, but even if I never do, I will always remember the amazing people that I met, and all the lives I helped changed by my work in Honduras.

Worksite Days

Pass the buckets. Mix the cement. Flatten the sand. Don’t die of a heat stroke.

The worksite days were hard. Really hard. The sun was beating down on us the entire time we worked and it seemed like there was no end in sight.

After our first full work day a cage soccer match was held. We didn’t play ourselves, so the game seemed to drag on forever. In retrospect I wish I had played. Our team, which was a combination of USC and William & Mary players, ended up winning the tournament for the girls!

The second worksite day was also burrito day… and possibly the best day yet. It was a normal day at the worksite – still passing buckets, mixing cement, flattening dirt, and making sure you were hydrated enough that you didn’t faint. But on this day we learned to pass the time better by playing a very fun game “Odds”. Basically you dared someone to do something and they gave you a range – the odds that they would do the dare – say 1 in 10. A third person would count down for you and you’d both shout out a number at the same time between 1 and 10. If you said the same number, the dare had to be completed. At around 3pm on this day it started to torrentially downpour, so we ended our work day a little earlier than planned. We ended up inside another school building nearby where we got to interact with a lot of young students. We had so much fun and it was really exciting being able to use our Spanish, since none of them spoke any English (and it’s a little less intimidating speaking Spanish to children)!

After getting back to Villa Soleada and eating dinner, we watched the movie Sin Nombre. This was one of the hardest movies I’ve watched and I would definitely encourage anyone reading this to watch the movie and understand a little more about life outside of the United States. It made me so much more aware of the surrounding I was in. Living in the United States we have so many opportunities and privileges that we don’t think about; we take these rights for granted unintentionally and don’t realize how truly lucky we are. It was an eye-opening, humbling experience to watch a movie like this while being in such a poverty-ridden country where this is their normal.

Day 5:

Today was so, so fun. We had oatmeal for breakfast which was a nice change from eggs, avocados and beans. The morning went slowly; we shoveled and broke rocks apart which was exhausting. At lunch we got to experience something so normal in Honduras but so unlike anything I’ve ever experienced. We watched chickens be killed… I know it sounds terrible, and trust me I almost cried, but it is a part of every day life there. It obviously isn’t to be cruel or malicious – this is their way of life and a means of food.

Just a warning that this next part is a little… descriptive.

To kill the chickens they typically tie them upside-down to a tree and slit their throats, completely beheading them. It’s the quickest way for the blood to drain. We watched this happen to about 5 chickens and my stomach was turning, I genuinely thought I was going to be sick. And then they asked US if we wanted to help. I stepped as far to the back of our group as I possibly could without being rude, but there was no way I would partake in something like that. I couldn’t. Shayna, however… well she stepped right up and killed a chicken. But she didn’t cut it’s throat, oh no, the Hondurans had Shayna kill this chicken by SHAKING IT by it’s neck until it SNAPPED. I have it on video and it’s disturbing to say the least but I’ve got to hand it to Shayna for taking part in their culture. As bad as it sounds, I’m happy we got to experience it – but I also hope I never have to again for the rest of my life. Have you ever heard the saying “running around like a chicken with its head cut off”? Well, it’s not just a saying. After a chickens head is cut off, their bodies still move… they run, tremble, and twitch for almost a full two minutes, HEADLESS, after they’re actually killed. Something about their nerves. It was one of those situations where something terrible is happening, but you literally cannot take your eyes off, like a car accident. Anyways, they told us they would be making us chicken soup tomorrow with these chickens and I have yet to decide if I will eat it. Something about watching that exact chicken be killed doesn’t sit right with me.

Once we got back to the Villa we went to hangout with some of the children in the village. They took us on a Honduran style bike ride… we pedaled, they steered. It was a blast. Tonight we had nachos for dinner! Black beans, corn, spicy salsa, cheese, chicken, and fresh made guac. They were absolutely delicious.

Day 6: My favorite day.

I became such great friends with Adeiel, one of the sweet Honduran boys, and we took so many pictures. He was the cutest, happiest, goofiest little kid I’ve ever met. Writing this now breaks my heart because I miss him and his adorable laugh so much. It was very hard to say goodbye to him.

I was able to practice a lot of my Spanish today which is exciting! I spoke to one of the guards – Jerson – for a while about my experience so far, where I’m from, how I was feeling, and if I was excited for our beach day. I was impressed at how comfortable I felt speaking Spanish to him.

I also saw Edith and her mom again today when we brought our supplies back from the work site. Edith showed me her shoes and her mom (again) told us how we are always, always welcome at their home. They’re such sweet, amazing people. When we got back to Villa I spent nearly an hour talking to Jean Carlos. It’s fun, because he knows about the same amount of English as I do Spanish, so we had fun trying to teach each other new words and hold conversations in both languages. He’s so smart, but I’m also so sad for him. He’s at the boys home, which is basically an orphanage. He told me that he doesn’t like Villa that much, and that he wishes he lived in Tegucigalpa instead because “the mountains are beautiful.” He also told me that he does not love La Nunez either. Later he told me that he would teach me how to salsa (which he did) and then he brought me a piece of cake from Julia’s birthday. He’s adorable, and I love him so much. I am so blessed to be a part of an organization that can help children like Jean Carlos to be successful and to have a promising future ahead of them.

At dinner I sat with Katie, Shayna and Michael and we got to know more about each other. Katie studies Indian and South Asian studies at William and Mary, and she’s almost fluent in Hindu. She is on a competitive Bhangra dance team and spent about 6 months in India (where she had to bathe in a bucket hahaha). She’s a very unique person and I loved hearing about her stories. Michael goes to USC too actually, and is almost perfectly fluent in Spanish, which is his major.

HONDURAS

After an eventful stay in Park Ridge for NYE, our journey to Honduras began. First we had to drive from New Jersey back to South Carolina, where our flight was booked from. The entire 12 hour drive I remember Shayna and I kept asking ourselves “What the hell did we get ourselves in to?”

At this point we didn’t know where we’d be staying, who we’d be with, or what we really would be doing while in Honduras. Our understanding of the trip was very, very, alarmingly slim.

We had a layover in Texas that, of course, was too short and we missed our flight after a delay in Columbia. Luckily there was another flight to Honduras about an hour later (who would’ve guessed flights to Honduras were so common?). All of a sudden, we were in Honduras. Getting off the plane was frightening. Inside the airport it was hot, muggy, everyone was speaking Spanish, and we had very little instruction to follow. Somehow we managed to find our luggage sitting in the middle of the floor near baggage claim. We grabbed it, walked out of a gate and saw people holding up “Students Helping Honduras” signs. This was good. We found a group of people and ended up sitting on the floor of the Honduran airport for probably 2 hours.

Eventually, we got on a broken down, dirty old school bus that took us to a grocery store. We came out with all the essentials – a bottle of champagne, a bottle of wine, a 6-pack of Honduran beer, and peanut butter. We were all set for our trip. Once we got to the hostel we would be staying at, we were given instructions: wait and you will be assigned your room. Well, it turns out me, Shayna, and three other girls were the only ones who actually listened to this. By the time we figured this out, all the rooms had been claimed and we found ourselves concerned and alone. We found a few extra beds in one room, which we were later kicked out of, so we eventually found an empty room that was designated for the guards, but we were directed to stay in there.

The first day wasn’t very eventful. We got to know our roommates: Ashlyn, Kiersten and Taylor, all of whom were seniors at USC. Taylor actually is in my sorority and we didn’t even know it. The five of us ended up becoming very close during the course of the trip, but more on that later. We went to a pick-up soccer game that night and then went back early for dinner and showers before our first day on the work site.

The shower was a nightmare. The door wouldn’t close, so I was basically standing in the bathroom butt naked. The floors were dirty and the ice-cold water trickled out so slowly it didn’t even feel like a shower. I would argue that I was never truly clean on that trip. We also learned pretty early in the trip that the WiFi was extremely unreliable; only 20 people or so were allowed to be connected at a time, so people would deviously reset the router without telling anyone. The first 20 people that connected were good, and everyone else was pissed. It took us a little bit to understand this system.

I slept on a bunk bed with a rock-hard pillow and a bath towel as my blanket. It was a rough first night to say the least.

Day 2

We got to explore some of Villa Soleada (the village we were staying at) in the morning half of our day, and then we traveled to the village of La Nunez, which is where we would be building our school. For lunch we got split up into groups of 3, one of whom had to speak a very good amount of Spanish. Shayna and I paired up with Fernando, another assistant who spoke almost fluent Spanish. We went to a tiny little house up where a girl named Edith and the mother who had taken her in and raised her lived. This mother had 4 children of her own (one daughter, three sons), the youngest being 20 years old, and now she had taken in Edith. Edith was around 5 or 6 years old and had been abandoned by her birth mother.

At their home, Edith and her mom taught us how to make a very traditional Honduran lunch – baleadas. Baleadas consist of homemade tortillas filled with scrambled eggs, avocado, and refried beans. They were delicious, but making the tortillas was a lot more difficult than it appeared. First, we mixed the ingredients to make the dough. Then we had to pound and roll out the dough into a perfect circle, and there was a strategy to this that Shayna and I seriously struggled with. But, all in all, the baleadas turned out delicious and perfectly cooked. After lunch, Edith’s mom showed us how to make pastelitas de pina, aka pineapple pastries. They were some of the most delicious desserts I have ever had – filled with warm, cooked pineapple. I’ve craved them every day since eating them! Edith even ran out quickly and returned with Honduran chocolates for the three of us. It was amazing meeting such wonderful people who had very little for themselves and yet were willing to give so much. Edith’s mom told us that if we ever came back to Honduras, we would always have a place to stay with her. They were such amazing people and I will never forget my experience meeting them.

After lunch, our group as a whole met at one of the teacher’s homes. Our group consisted of students from USC, Hampton Sydney, Virginia Tech, William and Mary, and a few from other schools. We went around in a circle and introduced ourselves: where we were from, our names, our age, etc.

This is where we found “the one” 😉

When we got back to Villa Soleada we found that we’d gotten kicked out of our bedroom again. This would be the second time in 24 hours. So now, Shayna and I had to go into one room to join a group of girls from William & Mary, while Taylor, Kiersten and Ashlyn went into another room with girls from Virginia Tech. Turns out that Shayna and I got the better end of the stick there. We met Katie, who ended up being one of the funniest, coolest people we would meet on this trip. We spent the night casually chatting and gearing up for our first full day at the worksite tomorrow.

How I Ended Up in Honduras

My goal with this blog was to write about all of the adventures that I took, which I have obviously failed to do thus far.  I think it is about time that I write about the trip I took to Honduras this past January.

So how did I end up in Honduras you ask? Well, you see, I have a passion for traveling. I’m constantly looking to meet new people, explore new places, learn about different, unique cultures, and create unforgettable memories in doing so. I’m currently a business student at the University of South Carolina, so when I learned that the International Business program here is the top program in the entire country (and has been for 15+ years), you’d better believe that I made it my mission to get accepted into the program.

I spoke with an advisor to figure out what I needed to do to apply to this program. The application was extremely competitive, and it was based on a number of factors: your GPA, course load, minor (all international business majors are required to minor in a language – my minor is Spanish), and multiple tough essays. I knew my GPA and course loads were competitive enough for the program, but Spanish is a very popular minor and would therefore work against me. So, I was advised to do something with the Spanish language that would make my application stand out.

I started to look up groups that I could get involved with on campus, or mini study abroad trips I could take to a Spanish speaking country. Luckily, I found an organization that combined both of these. Students Helping Honduras. It was an organization that traveled to Honduras during winter breaks, summer breaks, and spring breaks. SHH works with the local citizens of Honduras to build school infrastructure to promote education for children. Honduras is one of the poorest, most crime-ridden countries in the world. The lack of educational opportunities there force children to be recruited into gangs at alarmingly young ages. SHH works to build schools and other school buildings to provide local children an opportunity to attend school and receive an education in an effort to discourage a life of crime and violence. When SHH members aren’t traveling to Honduras, they host fundraising events to raise money for the construction costs.

I decided that this was such an ideal organization for me to get involved with – it would benefit my application to the International Business program while simultaneously helping so many young children, and I knew the experience would be invaluable. I was nervous, though, to make a trip to Honduras without knowing anyone. Somehow I was able to convince my roommate and one of my best friends, Shayna, to join me on the trip. Before we had a chance to think twice we called our parents, got their approvals, and booked our flights to Honduras on January 3rd, 2015…

to be continued